Dear Neil: 12 years ago, I met a man who I fell in love with, but the relationship never went any further than a friendship. Ever since then, I regret not having made my feelings clear to him. I am now in a long-term committed relationship with a man I love. But I periodically think […]
Choosing Between Two People
Note: This is the second of a two-part series. Click here for part one If you are caught between being in a relationship with two different people, and are attempting to choose which one you want to commit to, here are more questions which are designed to assist you in coming to a choice. These […]
Should I Divorce My Wife and Marry My Lover?
Note: This is the first of a two-part series. Click here for part two Dear Neil: I need help. I am in a 22 year affectionless, sexless and loveless marriage with my high school sweetheart. I am also in a three year extremely passionate relationship with another woman who I am deeply in love with. […]
Lack of Sex Requires Heart to Heart
Dear Neil: A few years ago, my husband of 22 years wanted sex and I didn’t, and he tried to physically force me to have sex. When that did not work, he pushed me out of bed. My father was a physically and verbally abusive man, and this may be part of the reason why […]