Dear Neil: I would like to know whether my husband is having a midlife crisis. He keeps saying he loves me but is not in love with me anymore, and that I am not the person he married. Can you help? Lost in Sacramento Dear Lost: It sounds like your husband is saying he no […]
Note: This is the second of a two-part series. It’s not enough to know that male midlife crisis can lead to inappropriate hostility, criticism, passive-aggressive behavior, cynicism, affairs, an unhappy marriage, family desertion, impulsive job changes, monetary loss, poor investments, low self-esteem, drug abuse and alcoholism. You have to also know what to do about […]
Note: This is the first of a two-part series. Dear Neil: How can I determine if my boyfriend is going through a midlife crisis? Disturbed in Longmont, Colorado Dear Disturbed: Take this quiz, courtesy of Gay Courter and Pat Gaudette in the book How To Survive Your Husband’s Midlife Crisis (Perigee). How many of the following […]